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I'm Dana. 24. Ottawa. ENFJ. Love who you love. Live with no regrets. Make mistakes. Take chances. Don't let fear hold you back.


the lack of cuddling i am experiencing right now is upsetting 




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this is the cutest video in the entire world. this seal is just so afraid for this dumb weird baby she thinks she’s found out in the ocean. have a bird. have another bird. no, see, eat the bird! the bird is food! why won’t this stupid baby eat. open your mouth you idiot baby i will feed you bird if it’s the last thing i do



I like when they text me good morning or call me. Check up on me all the time. I actually don’t find that annoying. I don’t get how you couldn’t like that. Someone constantly wanting to talk to you and show you affection. I love it when someone does that. That keeps me happy and it will keep me from leaving. It shows that you are thinking about me.

It’s funny how you never realize that things are going to be your last. Last kiss, last hug, last cuddle, last laugh… Is it okay for me to say that I’m going to miss all those things? That I’m going to miss the feel of you beside me? Your middle of the night sleepy kisses. Your breath on my neck. The way you looked in the morning and the way you looked at me before we fell asleep. The way you reached for me in the middle of the night and then, when you got what you wanted, how your hand found mine and our fingers intertwined? Is it okay to feel like that, because I feel like you’ve made it not okay. Don’t diminish my feelings because you thought it wasn’t a lot of time. Time and the degree to which you feel is only slightly comparable. I’m allowed to feel this way, my feelings are justifiable. I wish you’d understand that.

I fully understand that everything happens for a reason. People come in and out of your life and you will always, always learn something from every person. That all life lessons are just that-lessons. One day I can look at this and be okay with it but today, tomorrow and maybe even next week it’s okay for me to feel like this sucks. That no matter how ‘short’ it was, that I’m allowed to be upset over the fact that it’s over. I’m allowed to cry and feel like part of my world just tumbled down. You were at lot of firsts for me and even if I wasn’t anything to you, you’ll always be something to me. Our paths are crossed for life. I just really wish that I unequivocally believe you when you said that it did matter. Because right now, I’m having a hard time believing that I was anything other than a place for you to lay your head when you felt like it. I’ll be okay, I always am. I’ll find someone who liked what you may not have, the very thing that might have brought this on in the first place. I’ll get what I deserve one day. But I do truly hope that you find all the happiness in the world. All the answers to your questions. That you follow your heart and discover all of it’s desires. That you find whatever it is that you’re looking for in this fucked up crazy world because I just want you to be happy. I’ll never regret what happened with us. You’ll never hear me say that you were a mistake. I will look back on it and think, “wow, I must have really trusted her for me to do that”. Right now I’m hurt, I’m upset, hell I might even be a little angry but that will pass. You taught me things that no one else would have been able to and you gave me some really great memories. I hope you feel the same.



emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.

this is important because so many people don’t know this